Monday, January 13, 2014
The Chemistry Conundrum
Gees. Is this the $64,000 question or what!
And I’m struggling right now.
I “googled” chemistry in romance and there were 12,300,000 sites! Three that I liked are at the end of this post. And no, I didn’t read all 12 million of them. I skimmed through the first two pages.
And now...for my conundrum. As you know, I met a man for a “meet and greet”. Very pleasant. Nice conversation. Felt okay. He offered and I accepted a 2nd date. Again, a nice date with reasonable conversation. He walked me to my car, asked if he could kiss me, and…nothing. For me, no chemistry. No spark.
Remember an earlier post? I had never experienced chemistry until nearly a year ago. I had no clue what I was missing. Now that I’ve experienced chemistry, there’s no going back. And this was my fear as that relationship ended, would I ever experience those feelings again? I’m addicted. It’s a grand and marvelous feeling…I want to feel that way again, and again, and again…for the rest of my life. Life is too short to live without chemistry.
Or is it? There may be a third date for me with this gentleman. I have some questions to ask him. One of them may be about chemistry. I have questions for me. Do I already know or does chemistry have the capacity to grow?
What do you think? Let me know.
I have a blogging mentor. She's suggested more photos (she said please!) I'm happy to oblige, I love photography and I am an amateur (with an emphasis on amateur) photographer. As a "mentee" I am eager to please my mentor. So here is one of my photos of my favorite muse...Mt. Rainier!